The Falsities of (anti)Social Media & (what you don’t see)

Every single day on every social media platform you log in and see people doing great things, people eating nice food, people having drinks at a cool bar, people generally having a great time. This leads me to question: “Are people’s lives this exciting all the time?”

I feel like Social media has created this hyper-real world that it seems like everyone’s lives ARE exciting all the time, and there’s a real pressure there for your life to be equally as wonderful and charmed as everyone around you and that creates this never ending cycle. I don’t think that this world has been formed on purpuse, but people generally don’t put up photos of crappy things happening to them right? We now live in an endless sea of bathroom selfies – Pictures of ourselves which taken so many times over from myspace angles we become disassociated with our own image and lose our own meaning. Much like saying a word over and over again so many times over that it sounds strange and loses it’s meaning and becomes just a sound. (The word analogy by Radiolab) Maybe I’m thinking it over too much. There’s a lot of narcissism everywhere and I’d like to see content sharing changed for the better. So please link me cool things you have seen, things I can learn about, what’s going on in the world.

Sometimes Social Media is more like Anti-Social Media. Real conversation is dying, at least once a day you will hear ‘Did you see what ________ posted on __facebook/twitter/instagram___ yesterday?’. It has really killed the magic of “catching up” with someone properly because you’ve seen all the status updates, seen everything from what they had for breakfast to what they listened to waiting at the train station and what train station they just checked into.

YES I’m guilty of adding to this hyper-real amazing world occasionally – I guess this year has led me to some pretty cool opportunities, but what I want everyone to know is that behind every small victory there are countless hours of battle and hard work. I want to dispel the illusion of the excitement of life that the internet portrays. In reality, my every day life is pretty boring. There, I said it. (if you want a summary every day goes like this: wake-up>draw>work>eat>work>eat>draw>draw>sleep>repeat – pretty fucking mundane yeah?)

What you don’t see behind the scenes of a ‘this awesome thing happened to me’ status update or a ‘look at what im doing’ retro-filtered photo are the countless late nights and early starts you have to put in before & after a 9 hour day job. I’ve even forced myself to drink coffee so I can sit inside a cafe for an hour before work to get some drawing done every day. Good luck and opportunity are really 99% hard work and your work ethic determines what you get out of life. So get out there, put some hours into what you love.

Take those status updates with a grain of salt. And don’t get me wrong, I love tools like instagram and twitter because they’re tools which let you connect directly with people you really admire and are inspired by, maybe inspire others and sometimes people do post interesting things. Just be selective with what you put on the internet, it stays there for a while.

- Sam

3 Responses to “The Falsities of (anti)Social Media & (what you don’t see)”

  1. Teeboon says:

    And I’m just sitting here on the toilet…

  2. Mez says:

    Amen brother!

  3. Mustang Josi says:

    Probably one of the more relevant things I have read about this topic in a hot minute. Thanks.

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